Gender roles? Freedom?

What's freedom? The possibility of being who you decide to be? Is Freedom the possibility to decide, to choose? If we take for granted the destiny, if we admit that there is a kind of predestination, something is written for us, our path is predesigned, if we admit that gender is not a social construction but a fate, a destiny, a question of biology already set, then ... where is freedom in all those labels, preconfigured ways of being, living, thinking ...? Do you believe in Freedom? IF you believe in destiny, you are not the owner of your body, of your life, of your feelings, of your ideas... What is the discussion for, then? What's the point of it all? We'd better go out and travel the world and discover other people's destiny in history while writing yours.